Working Smarter, Being Happier

March 23, 2011

What happens when you have a lot on your plate? You get stressed, overwhelmed, and maybe a little panicky. I’ve felt like that for the past month or so – you may have noticed. At the start of 2011, a funny thing has happened – many of my personal and professional efforts suddenly bore fruit…all at once.  I’ve been invited to write regularly for some wonderful sites (Hi Yaro! Hi Portfolio.com!), I’ll be heading out to SOBCon at the end of April (yeah!), and another HUGE opportunity just came through. Oh, right, and my client work has stepped up a notch in intensity. While I am certainly not complaining about all this – how could I? – I confess I’ve been feeling a lot of load around how to take advantage of all these awesome opportunities with high quality, high integrity work. I’ve also been concerned about burn (or gaining 50 Ibs from stress eating). My first instinct, as always, was to do my research on stress management and work overload. I uncovered a variety of oh-so-helpful tips, some of which actually stuck. They include: Check Your Email Only Twice a Day – This came from Tim Ferriss and The 4 Hour Workweek (my go to business bible). He teaches that you should only check your email just before lunch and an hour before the…

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How Your Job Influences Your Health

March 20, 2011

As Uncommoners, it’s something we’ve all known for years, but finally science has proved it – bad jobs negatively affect your mental health. In fact, a job that you are unhappy in has been proven worse for your mental health than being unemployed, a situation that is always considered majorly problematic to your mental well being. Last week, Time.com posted an article that outlined the results of a recent psychological study: Australian National University researchers looked at how various psychosocial work attributes affect well-being. They found that poor-quality jobs — those with high demands, low control over decision making, high job insecurity and an effort-reward imbalance — had more adverse effects on mental health than joblessness. The bottom line: “the worse the job, the more it affected workers’ well-being.” More Than Just a Job Over the last three years, I’ve run into people who say that there is no point to living Uncommonly, because a job is just a job.  “What’s the big deal, just clock-in, do your time, and clock-out. No problem.” But what this study underscores is something I’ve known for a long time (and obviously you do to, or else you wouldn’t be here!): there is no way to compartmentalize work from the rest of your life, because your work is part of your life…and a big one at that.  You spend…

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Quitting Your Day Job

March 15, 2011

By Steve Nicholas, fantastic thought leader and world-class Uncommoner I am honored to be a guest poster on The Life Uncommon. I thought about something that Uncommoners will have to deal with at one point or another as we work towards our ultimate goal of financial freedoms: when or if you should quit your day job. One of the biggest questions about the world of day jobs is one that also applies from a book that I read about running: You must ask yourself, with every workout, if this is something that gets you closer to your goals. Dr. Jack Daniels Questions of Time One of the biggest questions about the day jobs that we have while working toward our ultimate goal is how that job affects time. If you are working a dead-end, minimum-wage job that saps all of your energy and leaves you with very little time, I think that it is definitely time to look for something else.

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Taking 100% Responsibility for My Life

March 9, 2011

Karen Marrow is a fantastic personal development coach and internet marketer.  Her story about starting her Uncommon Life is great inspiration! -  Nacie It’s amazing what a matter of years can do for your life.  Just five short years ago I had a much different perspective on life than I do now.  At that time,  I really had a pessimistic outlook on life.  It was just going through the motions and often looked at the glass half empty.  When someone would ask me how things were going, I would immediately think of all the things that were NOT going right and report all of them to whomever was asking.  I’m sure you know people like that and believe me when I say I was one of them.  I was excellent at it. I can remember the day I had an awakening like it was yesterday.  It remains very vivid in my mind and that day I cried a mixture of tears of joy and sorrow at the same time.  Sorrow for what I believe I had created in my life and joy for the realizing that it didn’t have to be that way and that I had the power to change it. After I had this awakening, I sat my husband down and apologized for the way I had been and told him he was…

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Why Niches Aren’t the Best Fit for Freelancers

March 6, 2011

I am very pleased to introduce Lynda Forman, a fantastic Uncommoner and newest edition to The Life Uncommon writing team. I know you will all help me welcome her as a voice on this site with enthusiasm! – Nacie No matter how long you’ve been writing, you’ve probably come across this message: specialize. After all, when you specialize in a field, you become the valued and sought-out expert. You become the freelancer others seek out for amazing copy and even better insights, right? Before you start thinking about how you can specialize, you consider the downsides of focusing on just one topic or focusing in just one niche. Specializing makes sense for some, but for others, it can leave them feeling limited. You’re called a FREElancer for a reason, after all. Fewer Clients Than You Think In a perfect world, clients would be everywhere, begging you over email to take their projects. They would think you knew everything about their topic and could make their ideas sing on a page, on a website, or in a book. However, when you focus on just one niche, here’s what happens – you find a few clients in that niche and they already have writers on board. On the other hand, when you’re a Jack or a Jill-of-all-most-trades, you get a chance with any and every client available….

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